Is that what people usually do when they meet somewhere together, just for friendly communication, and not for some reason? Everything descends into slander, and more specifically, discussions of ex—boyfriends and ex-girlfriends (most often), husbands, wives — this is heavy artillery. And as you know, in this process it turns out who is the goat and who is the bitch. Moscow is a tough city, and therefore there are plenty of reasons for such discussions, as, in principle, in other parts of our planet.


Scrolling through my Facebook friendlent, I noticed a publication saying that some directors were drunk somewhere in Moscow and, of course, they were discussing their exes. And then there were comments from other purely male and purely female mini-collectives that they were doing the same thing ... And then what they thought about these very exes, and, as it turned out, the opinions were similar, but alas, not inspiring. People still manage to enjoy it! A few peacemakers squeeze out that all the exes are great and so good, and in general we need to think about the future and the present.


You've already guessed that I'm one of those people who wrote about good things. And then I started thinking, because I didn't come to this right away, which was the reason for writing this article. It's work, and working with your emotions and feelings. And the first emotion towards an ex is to hit, smash, scream and... and... and … It's a pain, it's always a pain when someone leaves the script of life. Hatred, the desire to destroy, to take revenge, at least to the first blood — these are the first instinctive impulses that arise in the average person. There will still be scars on the heart. And the lessons not learned in a relationship or marriage, the rejection of one's own wrongness (and both are always wrong) and the work not done on mistakes encourage us to talk about the former. Everyone wants to prance, but few people are able to admit their mistakes. Pride and vanity are the most expensive vices for a person.


Another reason for exes to "wash their bones" is the banal desire to assert themselves and brag to their friends. Well, here, often, achievements and merits are invented, or the terrible deeds of the former, because against the background of the ungrateful (oh) terrible (oh) former (her), the narrator appears in the angelic light of the sufferer. And the fact that a person who speaks ill of others cannot be an angel a priori is not so striking. Oh, they love to feel sorry in Russia.. genetics… But that's for another time. When a person comes to his naturalness, he is simply not interested in talking about anyone.


What happens when discussing exes?

Let's look at what happens to a person when he discusses, swears, slanders, slanders, with the understanding that a person is a body + soul, from three positions: spiritual, mental and physical.


Spiritual

Each of us has a soul, and many people seem to agree with this. The holy scriptures explicitly inform us that it is not good to pour bile on anyone. It doesn't matter how much this person has ruined your life, because in fact, he (she) was attracted to you from the beginning.


In fact, backbiting is the gradual mortification of one's soul and the light of one's heart. But it's important who it happens to—who's talking, who's listening, and who they're talking about. Even with someone who listens passively! For example, an office with 10 employees. Two gossipy employees can discuss something fiercely, while others are forced to listen, but in fact, they unwittingly allow this to happen.


It is important not only not to slander, but also not to provoke other people to such an action. Those who engage in various energy practices, meditations, or prayers, immediately feel a slight suffocation and a desire to leave this place when they swear. Others, as a rule, feel a slight surge of energy when such a conversation is started, but this is only because they subconsciously want to feel a favorable contrast between themselves and those who are being vilified, even if that person really did what they say. De nombreux nouveaux joueurs à la recherche d’un début rentable dans les paris en ligne choisissent des plateformes fiables offrant des bonus de bienvenue généreux. L’inscription sur Melbet donne accès à des offres améliorées qui augmentent votre capital de départ et permettent de placer plus de paris avec moins de risque personnel. Le processus est rapide : créez un compte et entrez le code spécial dans le formulaire d’inscription. Cela active code promo melbet 130% de bonus jusqu’à 130 € sur votre premier dépôt (sports) + package casino jusqu’à 1800 € et 290 tours gratuits. Ces conditions de mise équitables.